Nefer Lopez

Nefer Lopez

I'm building businesses, talking to interesting people, running experiments on myself, and documenting what I learn.

ongoing threads

Currently exploring

  • 01 What happens when I stop trying to make people like me?
  • 02 Building Radical Red Rocket
  • 03 Talking with local business owners
  • 04 Learning to be more comfortable being seen
  • 05 Shaping a podcast — conversations with people building interesting lives
  • 06 Reading about psychology, business, technology, and human behavior

in progress

Current experiment

All experiments →
exp 001 · active Stop trying to make prospects like me If I stop managing how prospects perceive me, calls get shorter and more honest — and at least some of them go better. started Sep 28, 2026

latest

Writing

All writing →
Oct 2, 2026 Why I'm Running Experiments on Myself in Public The premise of this site — turning ideas into experiments, experiments into observations, and publishing before the lessons are tidy. Sep 30, 2026 I Thought I Was Afraid of Cold Calling. I Was Afraid of Not Being Liked. Years of dials, one honest realization about what the dread was actually about — and an experiment to test it. Sep 24, 2026 You Don't Have to Like Me for Me to Like Me On the quiet self-abandonment of being agreeable, and the sentence I keep having to relearn.

shelf

Books

All books →
reading The Art of Accomplishment Joe Hudson

recently finished

finished Breakthrough Advertising Eugene M. Schwartz finished Atomic Habits James Clear finished The Bitcoin Standard Saifedean Ammous

proof of work

Projects

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Independent — AI Automation · Marketing Engineering · Technical SEO

AI Website Factory

An AI-assisted production system that researches a local business and ships a customized, QA-passed website in roughly 13 minutes of measured pipeline time.

≈13 min identified business → deployed, QA-passed site

Google Stitch API · Google Places API · DataForSEO API +6

Case study →

Independent — Technical SEO · Local Search · Product Development

Finest City Plumbers

A San Diego plumber discovery site that helps consumers find licensed plumbers by project and location — designed, built, and measured end to end.

+354% clicks

Case study → Visit ↗

Client project — Technical Marketing · SEO · Automation

Boston VoIP

A local lead-generation site for a Boston technology advisory business — SEO, conversion paths, analytics, and an automated PDF proposal generator.

+40% clicks

Case study → Visit ↗

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